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Sybil Speaks Pt. 1

 I am a knowledge seeker.  I love to learn new things.  Not only do I love to learn new things, but I also love to share the knowledge I have with those seeking the same type of information I have.  My constant search for information plus the fact that I have an excellent memory means that I know a little about a lot of things. I wouldn't say I am a no-it-all because I don't try to force my information on others or try to outsmart anyone with the information I have.  That being said let me share a few things I haves learned after I was freed from a horrible situation.

1. Always stand up for yourself.

2.  Anyone not willing to stand up for you is not for you.

3.  Family isn't only about blood.

4.  Support shouldn't be conditional.

5.  Trust your gut.

6.  Your heart and your gut are connected.

7.  Inner beauty is important.

8.  Some things aren't worth fighting for.

9.  Anything could be worth fighting for.

10. Love is a wonderful thing.

11. Giving of yourself is a gift you give to yourself.

12. Just because a situation is bad does not mean it has to be your downfall.

13. Another person does not make you so they cannot break you.

14. Another person can shatter your heart.

15. Another person can destroy your well-being.

16. People want what is best for themselves first.

17. Intentions are everything.

18. There is always good with the bad.

19. You must keep a pure heart.

20. What isn't for you will leave you.

21. What is for you will be for you.

22. Helping others can heal your soul.

23. Help can come from the lease expected places.

24. Love can cover a multitude of wrongs.

25. Strength is about the work you put in.

26. Perserverance conquers many a thing.

27. Your feelings are valid just because you haves them.

28. Validate yourself and no one else matters.

29. Standing out in the crowd is a good thing.

30. Being unique is an asset.

There will always be someone that will try to lead you down the wrong path.  Just because you begin to follow doesn't mean you have to follow until the end. As long as there is breath in your body you can turn around and go down your own path.  Never let a bad decision be the end of your story.

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