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Black man conundrum

As I was driving today and listening to some old school hip hop, the artist referred to a woman as a b#%*h. That punched me in the gut in a way that it never has. When I have a strong reaction to anything I check myself.  Why had the wind been knocked out of me? One important thing to know about me is that I am proud to be a member of the black community.  I love black women and I absolutely adore black men. As I sit with this thought I realize what an uphill battle it has been and at times, still is, for me to truly support black men.  Don't worry black man,  I am a black woman and we are the strongest group on this planet so,  I will continue to be devoted to and supportive of the black man. So, I have been cheated on too many times to count.  It is such a deep hurt to feel you are being good to another person and doing all you can to have a successful relationship.  I don't believe the guys ever thought about that and how deeply it hurt my self-wo...