Keep It Sybil

Love can be a splendid thing.  It can also be a horrible thing if you don't understand its true meaning.  I have decided a few things about love.  They are more like lessons are they weren't easy to learn at all.  I have been beaten, bruised and broken a few times in order to gain this perspective. Loving a person deliberately is one of the hardest decisions to make.  That means that you have stepped out on a limb and in spite of the fact that you could come out a loser, you see the worth in loving that person.  A family member is generally not someone you make this decision on.  Its more of a romantic love.  When you win in this one you win so big and that makes it all worth it. Allowing someone else to love you can also be a hard choice.  Most may think that you don't have any say so in how another person feels.  Well the truth is that when you allow a person to love you it opens you up to give that much more love.  So because s...

If you look up the definition of words you may find that what you thought was the meaning of a word is totally different from its actual meaning.  I love words!  I love learning new words and discovering their meaning.  I am having an extremely hard time in my life right now.  The more I try the harder things get.  Yesterday I was speaking with one of my cousins and I began telling her my feelings.  Though I never used the word betray with her I was up early tossing and turning.  This was due to a part of my current hard times.  Well the word betray continued to move around in my mind.  Finally I said let me look up the definition of this word. This word that seems to only be used in extreme cases of dishonesty and disloyalty.  Because the only time I hear or read that word is under extreme conditions I thought that would be part of the definition.  The definition I always worked with in my mind is extreme dishonesty/disloyalty....