I know as well as the next person that dwelling on a negative isn't really a good thing to do. Now that I've said it here is a little unsolicited advice. I give advice or information to help people that may feel as if they are alone in a situation. Ok, people is me. So here it goes. There is a difference between dwelling and remembering. Dwelling means a place you are living. If you wake up in the negativity. Then you give it a piggy back ride through the day and sit it on the edge of the tub while you shower then cuddle it at night and have dreams about it, you are living inside of that negative situation. Run, run, run. You know that is not a good place to be. Living in negativity is why your hair isn't thick and luscious. It's why your skin looks like a pebbled road and your complexion is dirty looking and those extra 25 pounds won't let go of you. Your bones hurt, your vision is cloudy and you can't even poop any more. I do...
Keep It Sybil is the life and times of a 40 something young, mother, hip hop lover and so many other descriptions I may love and hate simultaneously, at times.