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You coward?

I am an observer of people. I like to watch others and see what they are doing and figure out a few things that may be going on in their lives. I like to analyze situations and figure out how to resolve any bad situations. Well, good or bad, I want to know as much information as possible. I know that if you could get into a situation you can get out of a situation.

In the past few years, I have realized that there are a great number of people who exhibit cowardice behavior on a regular basis. The definition of coward is: a person who lacks courage in facing danger, difficulty, opposition, pain, etc. Now that we all know what makes a person a coward; this is what I have seen in the past few years.

I have seen a lot of people who are unwilling to speak up in an undesirable situation. I know so many people that are in relationships--husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, employee/employer and they are afraid to speak up. What I don't understand about these types of people is that you are already in a bad situation, what do you think is going to happen? if you say something then the other person may divorce, break-up with, or fire you? I mean if anything that will just be a lateral move. If you really think about it, it will be an upward move emotionally! It is better all around to be in an emotionally satisfied place with yourself than to be in a physically satisfying place.

This has led me to be distrustful of people since so many people aren't willing to shoot from the hip. The ironic thing is that a lot of what people are lying about need not be lied about. For me it's more interesting to get a real reaction. I want to be asked a real question or given real information so I can give a real reaction. Keep it real Keep it real, I keep it 100. From what I have seen that couldn't be further from the truth.
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