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Perfection

There is no such thing as perfection. People with the ability to reason, realizes that there is no such thing as perfect. Theres no such thing as a perfect job, a perfect food, a perfect outfit, a perfect song, or a perfect mate. Then why is it that people still pass on just right for them, to find perfection?

Someone could have a job that is working for them. They are making nice money and people like her on the job and she does her job well but this is not enough for that person. They have to look at someone else making more money and start thinking that is the job for me. The problem is that they don't have any training for that job. They have no idea how to do that other person's job but that's the perfect job for them. No it isn't because you are equipped to handle that job. So this person goes and quits the current job and apply for the inappropriate job. Guess what, they don't ever get that job because the previous job was the job that was just right for them.

The reason nothing else can be perfect is because we are all different people. Just because I may look in the mirror and say dang you look good. I'm thinking this is a great outfit it clings in the right places and is loose were it counts. Well as soon as I step out of the house the first person that sees me thinks why did she wear that it is not right for her body type. Already that keeps it from being the perfect outfit since having adoration in that outfit is one of the goals when you are getting dressed.

This brings me to the perfect mate. There is certainly no such thing as a perfect mate. This always seems to be what causes people to break up or not even get involved in the relationship. The person has 8 out of the 10 things that you are looking for in a mate but instead of accepting that no one is perfect, you either get rid of the person or don't even get involved with the person in pursuit of the perfect man or woman. The breaking news is that this is a journey for fools.

Be wise enough to realize what is meant for you; what is just right for you!

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