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Today I had an interesting texting conversation after I had a telephone conversation with someone else. What I realized during the telephone conversation, is that I have rarely let people in. I haven't allowed a whole lot of people into the story that is my life. After the texting conversation, I realized that part of the reason I haven't let some people in is because they just didn't deserve to be let in.

I have let a few people in. The people that I felt would be accepting of the person that I am. One of the big personalities that I have let in has let me be who I am. Shoot, they have helped in allowing me to become who I am today. They took the time to find out what I wanted in life and then help nurture the dream with me. I don't mind sharing this part of who I am when the other person wants to be involved in knowing the real me.

However, during the text conversation, I realized that I am protective over myself but I am also very aware of the other person. If the other person isn't really trying to get to know me. If they never want to be involved in the parts of me that are not readily available to the naked eye, then I won't just share this part of me with them.

Letting people see the real you is a two-way road. I am willing to show it if the other person is willing to put in the work of wanting to know all parts of me not just what the eye can see.

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