Ok so here's a thought, when a man or woman hires a sex worker, there are reports that day the ones that want to be completely dominated have to make so many decisions otherwise. The same would be in reverse, they ones that have to be in complete control have no control over their lives. This made me think about the behaviors of people.
The loudest person in the place is trying to be heard because in their personal life they don't feel as though they are being heard. I look at this sort of thing and feel compassionate towards that person's situation. I know that every body has the basic need to be heard. It gives validation and that is a basic necessity.
Now once you understand this tenent you can deal with that person accordingly. It's not to say that you give the loud mouthed person on the side, a pass but you give them a little understanding. Sympathize a bit before you go directly to trying to break them down. Maybe you can even show them that you are listening to what they are saying and maybe they will feel a sense of accomplishment and quiet down a bit. It's just a lesson in compassion and understanding.
I just feel if there was s little more compassion and understanding towards others that we all would be better off and less self absorbed.
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