Learning when there is seemingly nothing to learn is a skill that can be learned. I have always been the type of person that would listen and watch. I would rarely speak to people I didn't know and this gave me the opportunity to study.
Studying the ways of people is an interesting thing to do. I have been doing it for so long that I can watch someone and pick up, through their actions, what they have going on in their minds about the situation they are in. It's also an interesting thing to do because when a person doesn't know they are being watched, they are less likely to be guarded. They will let their faces scrunch up if they are displeased or they will begin to fidget if they are uncomfortable, nervous or bored. These things are easy to spot when you know what you are looking for.
Some of the less obvious things I like to look for are the nonverbal interactions between couples. A couple will let you know what they have going on in the home by the things they don't say. While one of the people speak, if you watch the mate you can see how they feel about their mate. Did they roll their eyes or act as though they are not listening by doing something else? There is a disconnect in this relationship because they mate is not interested in anything their partner has to say. Now if the partner is looking at the other partner and they are engaged in the conversation then they are in a committed relationship. They are caring and connected with each other. This shows because they are interested enough to be involved in some way.
The way a person moves and touches another person is also an indication of what is going on in a persons mind. I have been doing this sort of thing for years and a lot of it is so that I can tell the story. I am always telling a story. I don't mind when other people study me either especially if they are willing to tell me what they came up with. I love to have insight into others and into my self. Learning in any capacity is a great thing.
Studying the ways of people is an interesting thing to do. I have been doing it for so long that I can watch someone and pick up, through their actions, what they have going on in their minds about the situation they are in. It's also an interesting thing to do because when a person doesn't know they are being watched, they are less likely to be guarded. They will let their faces scrunch up if they are displeased or they will begin to fidget if they are uncomfortable, nervous or bored. These things are easy to spot when you know what you are looking for.
Some of the less obvious things I like to look for are the nonverbal interactions between couples. A couple will let you know what they have going on in the home by the things they don't say. While one of the people speak, if you watch the mate you can see how they feel about their mate. Did they roll their eyes or act as though they are not listening by doing something else? There is a disconnect in this relationship because they mate is not interested in anything their partner has to say. Now if the partner is looking at the other partner and they are engaged in the conversation then they are in a committed relationship. They are caring and connected with each other. This shows because they are interested enough to be involved in some way.
The way a person moves and touches another person is also an indication of what is going on in a persons mind. I have been doing this sort of thing for years and a lot of it is so that I can tell the story. I am always telling a story. I don't mind when other people study me either especially if they are willing to tell me what they came up with. I love to have insight into others and into my self. Learning in any capacity is a great thing.
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