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I started blogging to be transparent.  I was taught that telling my story may help someone else.  I have a short story to share. 

You never know what a person is going through.  You could see them one day and not realize that the day before that something tragic may have occurred in their life.  Or, they told you they would do something and they didn't.  Now if you know that person is solid and stands by their word, why are you being them? You had the opportunity to show grace but instead you chose selfishness. I promise you that everyone wants kindness.

Truly, over the past couple of years there have been situations in my life that have made things almost unbearable. Yes,  I have made attempts to improve them and that was happening until the pandemic hit.  As much as people life to say just change what you don't like, the truth is, that's not always possible immediately. Show grace. 

I am never going to look like what is going on in my life but I do feel what is going on in my life. There are days that I don't even realize there are tears running down my face. I still wake up every morning and I'm thankful for all of the good people in my life.  Being thankful doesn't erase the pain or stop the hurt.  In the meanwhile,  I am doing all I can to change the situation.  It doesn't keep my chest from feeling hollow or keep the tears from falling though.  Some days I have to really search for something to put a smile on my face and that's the only way I know I will be triumphant.  I refuse to be stuck.  Feeling and acknowledging all of the pain is the only way over.  I know this and I know I will be fine.  Right now, the pain is more than I ever knew was possible.  Show grace, please.  It may help someone that you have no idea is looking for a positive to get through that day.  Kindness costs nothing but is invaluable to the person you give it to. 

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