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I thought we could have a grown folks talk. If you are under the age of 18, this post is not for you.  Let's just jump right in. WAP... really! 

I do not like this song. I have a few reasons and I will share.  Let me say this, it is not the subject matter that keeps me from liking this song.  I mean,  I know every word to Akinyele's #1 banger, Put It In My Mouth. I am not a prude in any way. 

My truth is,  if Cardi or Meg tge Stallion come on I will turn to see what else is on.  So,  the both of them on one song is a no for me. After about 3 weeks, I did break down to listen to the song. That one listen was enough for me. I couldn't take it.  

I felt like they were ramming the lyrics down my throat, they made me gag, they made me choke and not in the good way. I like a little conversation and then ease me in. Take a lesson from Akinyele, he is taking with the young lady about how he would like things to go... you wanna go down why not? See, he poses a question and then tells her, by the way my name is Ak. No, I don't think he finessed the situation more because women shouldn't talk like that or put their desires out there. Lil Kim did it expertly. Women should 100% say what they want in order to get what they need. 
 
I also want to say that the lyrics did anger me a bit. The anger was because it leads men to believe that the P is just W. Give them a little direction on how to maintain a WAP.  Outside of sex the man can assure a WAP by being kind, showing affection, being helpful and then a little kissing and touching of his woman.  Men have enough stress trying to find the pleasure points give them the road map,  don't just drop them on the spot and make them believe it's go time. Both parties are happier that way. I am a feminist of sorts.

For the ladies,  if you have a WAP and that seems to be all the fellows care about when it comes to you then he is a lame and you shouldn't be sharing with him. As women,  we should have multiple layers and other things to offer. We can't let anyone believe that sex is the only thing we have to offer. We must be well- rounded human beings. We have to remind these guys that we are a complete package not just a goodie bag. 

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