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Love is always a hot topic.  There are literally millions of people everyday that ask questions about love.  Many people would probably say that love is elusive.  Others may say that love is a many splendid things.  Some may say that love is something that can do without.  Love makes the world go around!

Love can be blind but in most cases, it is something that opens your eyes to so much.  As a child you look at your parents and get so upset that they have all of these rules and regulations.  Why do they have to get on your case so much and if they really loved you they wouldn't do 90% of the things they do to you.  As we get older and begin to see things from an adults eyes and maybe you have your own children and you have that aha moment that allows to understand how deeply  your parents really do love you.  Then you can understand the rules and why you weren't allowed to strap on your skates and jump out of that tree onto the roof of the house in an attempt to jump off the top of the house and land on your feet onto the ramp 20 feet below you.  No they didn't support this stunt but they loved you enough to stop you from doing that and signing you up for a class that teaches you how to do stunts safely.  What a great moment of relief it is to come to this realization. 

As a young adult you may feel like I am madly in love with my mate, he is so great for me.  You may think the way he flies off the handle when he sees another man or woman look at you in a lascivious way.  The incoherant babbling he or she does while explaining to  you that you aren't allowed to go certain places with them because people are bound to give you that longing look and how they don't want to have to beat up everyone in the spot.  For me this wasn't a long period of time.  The aha came at a time when there was more understanding of love.

God is love and God is good; therefore, the manifestation of real love is always going to be good.  This eliminates the thought that your mate flying into a jealous rage is adorable.  A true love is going to notice that people are giving you a look and that is fine.  In fact, it's more than fine it's preferable.  How proud they are that they have just entered the place with this fine specimen.  Love will allow you to have an argument and to have the conclusion be that you both agree to disagree and this is put away and shall not be a future issue.  Love is what allows a person that was unsure about life become sure that life is great.  Love does indeed make the world go around!

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